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| This photo has almost nothing to do with post.... but it makes me happy and I am low on the good photos right now. |
Each fall people who live where it is cold prep their homes for the winter (right, they do that don't they?) sealing doors, making sure the snow shovel is at hand. I guess we do something similar to that here before the summer.... make sure you know where the kiddie pool is, spend the last few days in March when the temperature is just right outside....
Anyway I also found myself using a calm before a storm to prep and get my ducks in a row. This anticipated storm is seasonal, of sorts, it is the start of the Fall semester. This is going to be a Fall semester like none other so I am taking extra precautions, like actually putting caulk around the windows instead of just that weird saran-wrap stuff. My foul weather isn't really foul at all, it is perhaps better described as intense. My plan for this Fall is to take one class (watershed hydrology), continue my part-time (30 hours a week) work and study for and take my comprehensive exams. Obviously (or maybe not) it is this last one that ups the whole intensity ante and I would be lying if I said I wasn't looking forward to it... because in my sick nerdy way I am. But by god I need to be "prepared" So over the last month I have been taking it extra easy and doing some life "weatherizing" in the hopes that it will make everything just a little bit less stressful. (And here I have to give serious kudos to Patrick who, having lived through last fall and that stress, suggested the first two moves) And yes the first three things taken together more than subsume my salary but if it allows me to thrive instead of just survive this fall by god it is worth it!
1) For the past three weeks I have had my groceries delivered to my door. At first I thought only rich people did this.... but with some way to get free delivery every time it is all kinds of affordable. Not to mention not having to spend an hour getting groceries with two grumpy kids makes this a borderline priceless option. I gave myself 3 weeks to get in the groove with it and it now takes me t-minus 10 minutes to do all of my grocery shopping.
2) Accept the fact that I cannot work as hard as I want or need to and still pick up the girls both days at 3:30 because lets face it folks it is impossible for me to go back to work or studying at 7:45 pm when they are both in bed because I am ready to be in bed too. Having accepted this fact we have decided to find a college student to pick the girls up for me three days a week, thus giving me 9 more hours each week to study and work.... nine whole hours!!
3) Embrace my inner slacker when it comes to housecleaning. Well, OK I did this years ago, but all the same it is important to lowering my stress level. This means if anyone wants to come over to our house it will have to be on Thursdays, because that is the day we have someone come by the house to clean. And I may just need to buy extra undies for the whole household because I gaurntee laundry will not be completed in a timely fashion.
4) Work as hard as I can to make every moment I spend with the girls and with Patrick a quality moment. Last week, for example, I was pretty darn tired and on my own because Patrick was working late and then went to exercise (two things he has needed to do all week) but irregardless decided to on a whim take Evie and Izzy to Peter Piper Pizza because it would be fun. And you know what? It was! I think if I can make good on the idea of time together as always quality time, e.g., my e-mail is put away, no mindless web surfing, I will have gained an important skill irregardless, not to mention the immense satisfaction of time well spent with the people that matter the most. (Don't worry Patrick this doesn't mean I will stop watching bad TV with you, because that really is quality time :)